well,
had a while ago this intense evening with my friends talking about
our more or less problematic familyrelationships.
How we every time again find ourselves in the typical roles we have always been in, as soon we are at home again, doesn´t matter how long we are living our own lives.
And our longing for communication and interaction with our parents that is simply different and is reflecting how we actually have changed - it´s not that the interaction doesn´t change at all but you maybe all now these things of having arguments always according to the same patterns, you know exactly what he is going to say now and you think that he is never going to change (?)
There is this communicationtheorie that says in interaction we behave somehow like the other person expects us to behave. So the question is: Do we even give a chance to the other person to change or to act different in not expecting the typical negative from them? How much could we free persons to really be what they can be in expecting the best things from them?
Looking somehow forward to christmas, to see all my fam and friends again,- maybe in a different way:)
Love, Hope and Faith to all of you
2 comments:
your thoughts are so true. gives me a new perspective of the family when I go home. only in few days, woo hoo!
also a great, relevant title for that post!
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